What to expect during hospice care (and what to prepare)

When a family first enters hospice, most of what they know about it comes from whatever they have heard, which is often incomplete and sometimes wrong. Knowing what to expect during hospice care before the first week begins reduces a significant amount of anxiety and helps families focus on what matters.

This guide answers the questions families most commonly ask: who comes, how often, what they do, and what the family's role actually looks like.

The first week: what typically happens

The intake visit

Within 24 to 48 hours of enrollment, a hospice nurse comes to wherever the patient is living for an intake assessment. This visit takes one to two hours. The nurse reviews medical history, assesses current symptoms, explains the hospice benefit, and sets up the initial care plan.

After the intake, the hospice team typically delivers:

• A medication supply, including the comfort kit (medications for pain, breathlessness, anxiety, and nausea)
• Any durable medical equipment covered by the hospice benefit, such as a hospital bed, wheelchair, or oxygen
• Educational materials for the family caregiver

Expect the first week to feel like a lot of activity and introductions. The team is learning the patient and the family; the family is learning the team and the routine. This period settles.

Who you will meet in the first week

• The primary hospice nurse (usually a registered nurse)
• The hospice social worker
• The home health aide assigned to the patient
• Sometimes, the hospice chaplain if the patient or family requests it

The hospice physician typically works in the background during the first week, reviewing the care plan and communicating with the patient's primary care doctor. You may not meet them in person initially.

What a typical week in hospice looks like

Once enrolled, the hospice team visits regularly according to the patient's care level. For most patients at home, a typical week includes:

Registered nurse: Two to three visits per week, more if symptoms are unstable. The nurse assesses symptoms, adjusts medications, trains family caregivers on what to watch for, and coordinates with the hospice physician.

Home health aide: One to three visits per week (or more depending on the care level). Helps with bathing, personal care, and daily tasks.

Social worker: Weekly or biweekly visits. Supports the patient and family emotionally, helps with practical logistics, and can facilitate family meetings.

Chaplain: Available on request or regularly scheduled, depending on patient and family preference.

Volunteers: Available for companionship, errands, and giving caregivers a break. Ask your nurse or social worker about volunteer availability.

The hospice team also includes a 24-hour on-call line staffed by nurses. Any family member can call this number at any time with questions or concerns.

The four levels of hospice care

Medicare defines four levels of hospice care, and families may move between them as the patient's condition changes.

Routine home care is the standard level. The hospice team visits regularly, and the patient remains at home with family caregiving between visits.

Continuous home care is intensive care provided at home during a medical crisis, typically for symptom management. A nurse or aide may be present for several hours or most of the day. This level is temporary, used to manage a specific acute symptom, and returns to routine home care when the crisis resolves.

Inpatient respite care allows the patient to stay briefly in a facility so the family caregiver can rest. Medicare covers up to five days of respite care per benefit period. This benefit is frequently underused. If the primary caregiver is exhausted, ask about it.

General inpatient care is used when symptoms cannot be managed at home. The patient stays in a hospice inpatient unit or hospital for intense symptom management. This is temporary; the goal is to stabilize symptoms and return to home care.

What the family's role is

Hospice does not provide 24-hour care in the home. The team visits for hours each day; the rest of the time, family members or hired caregivers fill the gaps. This is a significant responsibility that families sometimes underestimate at enrollment.

Typical family caregiver tasks during hospice at home:

• Monitoring symptoms and calling the hospice line when something changes
• Administering oral medications according to the schedule the nurse sets
• Providing basic personal care, meals, and companionship between aide visits
• Repositioning the patient regularly to prevent pressure sores
• Managing family communication and coordination

The hospice team will train you on each of these tasks. You do not need to know everything before you start. Ask questions freely.

If family caregiving is not feasible, whether due to geography, health, or capacity, ask the hospice social worker about options. Some hospices can arrange additional aide hours; some patients qualify for inpatient hospice facilities where the team provides round-the-clock care.

What happens as the patient declines

As the illness progresses, the hospice team adjusts the care plan to match. More frequent nursing visits, higher medication doses, different positioning support, these all change in response to what the patient needs.

In the final weeks, the hospice team will begin preparing the family for what to expect physically, the changes in breathing, sleep, circulation, and communication described in the guide to the last weeks of life.

When death is imminent, typically meaning hours to days away, most hospice agencies can arrange for an aide or nurse to be present more continuously. Ask your primary hospice nurse about what is available when you reach that stage.

Frequently asked questions

Can my parent still see specialists while on hospice?

Yes. A patient on hospice can still receive care from specialists. The limitation is that Medicare will not pay for treatments aimed at curing the terminal illness. Care for conditions unrelated to the terminal diagnosis continues normally.

What equipment does hospice provide?

Medicare's hospice benefit covers durable medical equipment related to the terminal illness. Commonly provided items include hospital beds, wheelchairs, walkers, commodes, oxygen equipment, and pressure-relieving mattresses. Ask your intake nurse what is covered for your parent's specific situation.

What if my parent is in a nursing home?

Hospice services can be provided in skilled nursing facilities and assisted living communities. The hospice team supplements the facility's care. The facility handles custodial care; the hospice team handles symptom management and emotional support.

What happens if we are not satisfied with the hospice agency?

You can change hospice agencies at any time. There is no restriction on switching providers. If you have concerns about the current agency, the hospice social worker is the right first contact. If the concern is not resolved, you can contact your state's hospice licensure office.

What is the hospice nurse looking for on each visit?

The nurse assesses pain level and whether it is being managed effectively, breathing patterns, skin integrity (checking for pressure sores), appetite and hydration, cognitive changes, and whether the current medications are appropriate. They also check in with the family caregiver to assess how they are managing.

What Passings can help with

The logistical and planning work that runs alongside hospice care is significant. Passings's guided checklist organizes the key tasks so nothing falls through the cracks, and the document vault stores the documents the family will need when the time comes. Start a free plan at Passings. Whenever you're ready, we'll be here.

Related resources

• What is hospice care: a plain-English guide for families
• How to prepare when a parent enters hospice care
• Planning during hospice: a family guide
• What to do in the last weeks of life

Passings is not a law firm and does not provide legal or medical advice. This article is for general informational purposes. For advice specific to your situation, consult a licensed healthcare professional or hospice provider.

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